Do you consider yourself a people pleaser? Are you Mr. Nice Guy? Have you had enough of hearing yourself saying “yes” when you wanted to say “no”? Are you sick being a doormat and sick of people walking over you all the time? Then keep on reading.
People around you probably consider you a very nice person. Your colleagues know they can ask you for help and know you will get it done. But for important decisions, your colleagues consult someone else. Or in meetings, you wait for the right moment to give your opinion. After a while, you grab your chance, but nobody pays attention. You realize this behavior is not going to bring you far, and you want to fix it.